Sunday, June 23, 2013

Truth in communication

It feels bad when your not feeling heard. Why don't you understand? What's your problem?
Somewhere there is a breakdown in communication, in language. Unfortunately, when this happens, it can result in hurt feelings, unkind words being spoken, and even, the end of the relationship.

Believing someone is wrong means you know the answer and have the ability to judge. That's a huge job and a position that carries alot of weight. You believe that the person isn't listening to you, and you feel ftustrated and angry.

Maybe a question:  Is my position the truth? Is it absolutely the truth? Is it always the truth? Are there mitigating circumstances?  

How wonderful to feel heard, to feel valued, to feel cared for. So, if there's a conflict, why? What's the underlying truth?

"By and large, language is a tool for concealing the truth." George Carlin

And then, there's that...





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